You Are Not Alone

Transitioning from Deputy Fire Chief to full-time Senior Pastor has been both rewarding and challenging. After 25+ years in the fire service, I’ve gathered countless stories and lessons—many of which now guide me in my new role. I feel compelled to share these insights, in the hope that they’ll offer encouragement and guidance to others navigating their own journeys in leadership, ministry, or life.

By: Roy Wilkinson III

Moments I Felt Alone

The fire service is built on teamwork. Much like the military, it relies on small groups with clear leadership to ensure accountability and safety. But what happens when those systems break down—not because of failure, but simply because there aren’t enough people?

I started as a volunteer firefighter in Central Florida, following in my dad’s footsteps. When he served, his department had up to 25 volunteers ready to respond. By the time I joined in the mid-1990s, that number had dropped to fewer than ten. Most members worked during the day, leaving me to respond with one other firefighter—or sometimes, alone.

Running calls solo is never ideal. Driving a fire engine without extra eyes to navigate traffic is difficult. But more than that, you never know what’s waiting for you on scene.

One night, I was the only one to respond to a medical call. Dispatch reported "breathing problems," so I knew an ambulance was coming—but from farther away. Arriving at a remote home 15 minutes outside of town, I knocked and heard, “Come in.” Inside, a man sat in a chair, gripping the handles of two butcher knives—both plunged into his abdomen. His voice strained as he told me he couldn’t push them in further or pull them out because of the pain. For a moment, I froze. I felt overwhelmingly alone. But within a few minutes, a sheriff’s deputy and the ambulance arrived right behind me.

Another time, I arrived alone to a large commercial fire on a college campus. Heavy flames poured from the structure. I immediately worked to establish water supply, radio for more help, and start fighting the fire. For 10 long minutes, I was on my own—until other units arrived, and we brought the fire under control.

Looking back, I realize I was never truly alone. Help was on the way. Even when I couldn’t see them, others were listening to my radio calls, dispatching resources, and coming to assist. More than that, God was with me.

In Matthew 28, Jesus promises, “I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” In John 6, He assures us He "will never push us away." Time and again, Scripture reminds us that God holds us securely.

If you feel alone today, take heart—you’re not. Just as I spoke into my radio and received guidance, you can call out to Jesus and hear His voice in your life. He has placed you in a family, a church, and a community so you never have to carry your burdens alone. And even when it feels like no one is coming—He is already there.

He loves you. He has a plan for you. Trust Him, and move forward knowing you are never alone.

Wherever you are: Answer the Call!